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The Repair Part I

I am back with the promised account of my last session. This post is the first of two (it got REALLY long). It was a very long, very intense session, so I’ll do my best to describe what happened. As in...

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The Repair Part II

This is the second part of a two-part series, for the first part see The Repair Part I. I ended the last post having just done a bag up job of expressing my anger at BN. I told him that it had felt...

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Coping with Grief and Abandonment Part I

GE asked the question below on the Ask AG page: im wondering if you are wiling to share some of the strategies you used to cope with grief and abandonment feelings when things got rough during your...

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Coping with Grief and Abandonment Part II

This is the second post in a two-part series on Grief and Abandonment, see Coping with Grief and Abandonment Part I. I’m sure it will not surprise any regular reader of this blog to realize that BN was...

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Reliving the Shame

I just had a deep insight into shame (which I suspect is going to sound D’oh when I say it) that I want to write down before I forget. I have been doing some rather intense work in therapy lately,...

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Peeking out of the Cave

Greetings Gentle Readers, I have missed you all. This break has stretched longer than I anticipated. The situation that precipitated my hiatus is ongoing, but things are much more stable. Of course...

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Nothing wrong all along

Ann left a comment on my last post: AG, if you don’t mind sharing, what exactly helped you recognize that BN was totally comfortable with your relationship with him? Instead of answering in the...

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One Among Many

Veryhopeful posted a question on the Psych Cafe forums and the more I thought about answering her, the more I realized it was an excellent topic for a post. So with her kind permission, I am repeating...

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Retirement of a Therapist – Part II

This is the second in a two-part series. For part I, see Retirement of a Therapist – Part I When we left off, I had brought you to the point of finding out my therapist was retiring, my mixed reactions...

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Encouragement for Those Who Are Weary

Greetings gentle readers, I ran across an old song I haven’t heard in years that I wanted to share. I loved the song when it first came out in 1979 (for those of you born after that year, there is no...

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